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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\nKe\u010f i\u0161iel Simi do prvej triedy, hovorila som pani u\u010dite\u013eke, \u017ee mu treba vopred hl\u00e1si\u0165 ka\u017ed\u00fa zmenu, sta\u010d\u00ed aj hodinu pred t\u00fdm, len aby vedel …, \u017ee bude in\u00fd rozvrh, \u017ee pr\u00edde niekto zastupova\u0165, \u017ee dnes nezvon\u00ed, \u017ee vyu\u010dovanie skon\u010d\u00ed sk\u00f4r. M\u00f4\u017eete to napl\u00e1nova\u0165 ako chcete, v\u017edy sa objav\u00ed nie\u010do naviac. Napr\u00edklad! P\u00e1n u\u010dite\u013e, ktor\u00fd u\u010d\u00ed v triede hudobn\u00fa posledn\u00fa hodinu v piatok, zaklope a s k\u013eudom Angli\u010dana vkr\u00e1\u010da do triedy posledn\u00fa hodinu vo \u0161tvrtok (lebo ve\u010f chce sa o nie\u010dom poradi\u0165 s kolegy\u0148ou). Simi hlasom \u201espravodliv\u00fdch\u201c: \u201e\u010co tu rob\u00ed\u0161? Ty tu teraz nem\u00e1\u0161 by\u0165?!\u201c…. P\u00e1n u\u010dite\u013e s\u00edce pou\u010den\u00fd, \u017ee v triede je chlap\u010dek s Aspergerov\u00fdm syndr\u00f3mom, \u017ee k jeho charakteristik\u00e1m patr\u00ed vravie\u0165 veci \u201ebez obalu\u201c, spust\u00ed samozrejme autoritat\u00edvny krik… A tak vz\u0165ah Simiho k hudobnej v\u00fdchove a k p\u00e1nu u\u010dite\u013eovi zachra\u0148uje a\u017e „corona time“ a skuto\u010dnos\u0165, \u017ee sa zbytok \u0161kolsk\u00e9ho roka nevideli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zmena, sp\u00f4sobuj\u00faca probl\u00e9m, m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 u n\u00e1s i to, ke\u010f pohnete s kopou lega na zemi. D\u00fafala som, \u017ee ke\u010f od\u00edde do \u0161koly, ja si sofistikovane kopu lega odfot\u00edm, kone\u010dne povys\u00e1vam izbu, ktor\u00e1 u\u017e z\u00fafalo vol\u00e1 po tomto z\u00e1kroku, pod\u013ea fotky d\u00e1m kopu do p\u00f4vodn\u00e9ho stavu, Simi si ni\u010d nev\u0161imne a v\u0161etci budeme happy. Omyl! Krik, hnev, h\u00e1dzanie v\u0161etk\u00e9ho, \u010do do\u0161lo pod ruky… Dnes u\u017e viem, \u017ee sa treba dohodn\u00fa\u0165, s k\u013eudom a ak nepovys\u00e1vam dnes, nevad\u00ed, ur\u010dite sa dohodneme pozajtra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010eal\u0161\u00ed fenom\u00e9n – vizualiz\u00e1cia re\u017eimu d\u0148a. Na za\u010diatku n\u00e1\u0161ho fungovania na spektre sme mali naozaj probl\u00e9m i s t\u00fdm, \u017ee uprostred d\u0148a bolo treba nepl\u00e1novane vyjs\u0165 z bytu na n\u00e1kup, \u017ee ne\u010dakane niekto zazvonil a bez ohl\u00e1senia pri\u0161iel. A tak som pova\u017eovala v ka\u017edej literat\u00fare, ako i na\u0161ou pani psychologi\u010dkou zd\u00f4raz\u0148ovan\u00fa vizualiz\u00e1ciu za sp\u00e1sonosn\u00fa my\u0161lienku. Vyzeralo to, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd, kto je na spektre dok\u00e1\u017ee fungova\u0165 len s t\u00fdmto. Zase omyl! Je to iste pre mnoh\u00fdch \u00fa\u017easn\u00e1 vec, bez ktorej nefunguj\u00fa, ale Simi to m\u00e1 inak. Najsk\u00f4r bol z m\u00f4jho diela nad\u0161en\u00fd, trvalo to dva dni a zdalo sa mi, \u017ee u\u017e nezvl\u00e1da ani to, \u010do zvl\u00e1dal pred t\u00fdm, bol nerv\u00f3zny a nerv\u00f3znej\u0161\u00ed. Vizu\u00e1l som zru\u0161ila a pomaly sa vr\u00e1tila do star\u00fdch ko\u013eaj\u00ed. Po \u010dase pri\u0161la corona a di\u0161tan\u010dn\u00e9 vzdel\u00e1vanie a m\u0148a napadlo, po prv\u00fdch z\u00fafal\u00fdch d\u0148och, to op\u00e4\u0165 sk\u00fasi\u0165. Zase omyl! Dva dni to fungovalo, ve\u010f, dala som tam pekn\u00e9 n\u00e1lepky …. ale potom Simi povedal: \u201eNechcem to, m\u00e1m z toho stres, \u010do v\u0161etko e\u0161te mus\u00edm!\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A tak, ak m\u00e1 by\u0165 nie\u010do inak, ak m\u00e1 pr\u00eds\u0165 nejak\u00e1 zmena, mal\u00e1, v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ia, alebo aj malink\u00e1, sna\u017e\u00edm sa Simimu o nej poveda\u0165 v\u010das … ani priskoro, ani neskoro, ani m\u00e1lo, ani ve\u013ea, aby nebola \u00fazkos\u0165, aby bolo minimum stresu a nap\u00e4tia. A pritom, to\u013ek\u00ed zase naopak chc\u00fa po\u010du\u0165 v\u0161etko do detailu! No a je to tak, \u017ee aj tak v\u017edy mus\u00edm r\u00e1ta\u0165 aj s t\u00fdm, \u017ee sa m\u00f4\u017ee objavi\u0165 nie\u010do naviac … Potom je na rade n\u00e1ru\u010d.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Som Mama Bo a m\u00e1m Simona bez n\u00e1vodu. <\/strong><\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u0160tandardne sa hovor\u00ed, \u017ee \u013eudia na spektre maj\u00fa probl\u00e9m so zmenami. Ot\u00e1zkou je, \u010do si pod t\u00fdm predstavi\u0165. So mnou teda pohne, ke\u010f m\u00e1m nov\u00fa pr\u00e1cu, nov\u00fdch susedov, ke\u010f sa u\u010d\u00edm na sk\u00fa\u0161ku a niekto mi povie, \u017ee term\u00edn zru\u0161ili. Ale, ak je niekto na spektre, ako n\u00e1\u0161 Simi, treba si pod pojmom zmena, ktor\u00e1 m\u00f4\u017ee […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":949,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-945","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vztahy","category-zmeny"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":6}},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/945","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=945"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/945\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":979,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/945\/revisions\/979"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/949"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=945"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=945"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=945"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n