{"id":1266,"date":"2021-12-08T11:47:12","date_gmt":"2021-12-08T10:47:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/?p=1266"},"modified":"2021-12-08T11:47:13","modified_gmt":"2021-12-08T10:47:13","slug":"kazda-jedna-ziva-bytost-citi-vnima-a-preziva-pocity-po-svojom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/2021\/12\/kazda-jedna-ziva-bytost-citi-vnima-a-preziva-pocity-po-svojom\/","title":{"rendered":"Ka\u017ed\u00e1 jedna \u017eiv\u00e1 bytos\u0165 c\u00edti, vn\u00edma a\u00a0pre\u017e\u00edva pocity po svojom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak\u017ee \u010do n\u00e1m hovoria tabu\u013eky? &#8230; \u00c1no, \u00e1no neurotypick\u00e1 spolo\u010dnos\u0165 \u017eije tabu\u013ekov\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom. Tabu\u013eky, tie radi pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa aj odborn\u00edci. \u010co je nap\u00edsan\u00e9 v knih\u00e1ch, to plat<strong>\u00ed. Tak teda naozaj je to tak, \u017ee autistick\u00fd \u010dlovek je \u010dud\u00e1k,&nbsp;sediaci a&nbsp;hojdaj\u00faci sa v&nbsp;k\u00fate, vo vlastnom svete a&nbsp;bez em\u00f3ci\u00ed?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Blbos\u0165.&nbsp; Mo\u017eno nevieme v\u017edy presne vyjadri\u0165,&nbsp;ako sa moment\u00e1lne c\u00edtime, slov\u00e1 sa n\u00e1m \u0165a\u017eko sp\u00e1jaj\u00fa s pocitmi. Ale dovol\u00edm si tvrdi\u0165, \u017ee sme empatickej\u0161\u00ed a citlivej\u0161\u00ed ako neurotypick\u00e1 spolo\u010dnos\u0165. To, \u017ee nevieme nie\u010do presne op\u00edsa\u0165, neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee to nec\u00edtime. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja osobne som ve\u013emi empatick\u00e1, citliv\u00e1 k&nbsp;potreb\u00e1m druh\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed a&nbsp;ve\u013eakr\u00e1t na \u00fakor seba samej. Nezn\u00e1\u0161am nespravodlivos\u0165, nepr\u00e1vos\u0165 na \u013eu\u010foch a de\u0165och, ktor\u00e9 sa nevedia br\u00e1ni\u0165 vo\u010di v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inovej spolo\u010dnosti.&nbsp; Pre m\u0148a je pomoc samozrejmos\u0165ou. Nerob\u00edm to pre nejak\u00fa prest\u00ed\u017e, alebo \u017ee by som si chcela nie\u010do dok\u00e1za\u0165. Mne fakt z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na spravodlivosti a&nbsp;na pocitoch druh\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed. Rada \u013eud\u00ed po\u010d\u00favam,&nbsp; viem by\u0165 tu, pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch. Som dobr\u00fd posluch\u00e1\u010d, ktor\u00fd sa s&nbsp;pochopen\u00edm sna\u017e\u00ed poradi\u0165 a&nbsp;hlavne tak, aby tomu druh\u00e9mu nebolo ubl\u00ed\u017een\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Za\u017e\u00edvam v\u0161ak, ako sa neurotypick\u00e1 spolo\u010dnos\u0165 stavia do role &#8222;my vieme v\u0161etko&#8220; &#8211; nechcem h\u00e1dza\u0165 v\u0161etk\u00fdm do jedn\u00e9ho vreca, tak rad\u0161ej nap\u00ed\u0161em \u017ee niektor\u00ed &#8211; v\u00f4bec, ale v\u00f4bec nevedia primerane reagova\u0165 na potreby autistickej \u010dasti spolo\u010dnosti. Spr\u00e1vaj\u00fa sa hrubo, povrchne a&nbsp;ve\u013eakr\u00e1t bez z\u00e1ujmu, bez citu. A&nbsp;to je u&nbsp;nich ako\u017ee empatick\u00e9? No nie je. <strong>Ja by som nechcela deli\u0165 spolo\u010dnos\u0165 na tak\u00fa a&nbsp;onak\u00fa, preto\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd jeden \u010dlovek s\u00e1m osebe m\u00e1 svoju povahu. Som presved\u010den\u00e1, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e1 jedna \u017eiv\u00e1 bytos\u0165 c\u00edti, vn\u00edma a&nbsp;pre\u017e\u00edva pocity po svojom.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/cropped-favicon.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-348\" width=\"128\" height=\"128\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/cropped-favicon.jpg 512w, https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/cropped-favicon-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/cropped-favicon-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/cropped-favicon-270x270.jpg 270w, https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/cropped-favicon-192x192.jpg 192w, https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/cropped-favicon-180x180.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/cropped-favicon-32x32.jpg 32w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 128px) 100vw, 128px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sk\u00faste sa v\u017ei\u0165 do ko\u017ee \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd m\u00e1 in\u00e9 myslenie, vn\u00edmanie a pre\u017e\u00edvanie, \u017ee ak\u00e9 je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 pre neho sa vyzna\u0165 vo svojich pocitoch, ke\u010f nem\u00e1 ani z okolia to\u013eko podpory, ako ostatn\u00ed. \u010casom sa v\u0161eli\u010do d\u00e1 nau\u010di\u0165, ale aby sme u\u017e mal\u00e9 deti tla\u010dili do vec\u00ed typu &#8222;povedz mi \u017ee ma \u013e\u00fabi\u0161&#8220; alebo &#8222;post\u00edskaj ma&#8220; a podobne, ke\u010f to sami nechc\u00fa, to naozaj nerada vid\u00edm.<strong> Preto\u017ee, verte tomu, \u017ee ak je die\u0165a\u0165u \u010dlovek bl\u00edzky, ono l\u00e1sku m\u00f4\u017ee uk\u00e1za\u0165 aj inak. Slov\u00e1 s\u00fa ve\u013eakr\u00e1t plytk\u00e9, bez h\u013abky a du\u0161e. A nie je to ani tak, \u017ee v\u0161etko sa d\u00e1 uk\u00e1za\u0165 t\u00fdm, ako sa die\u0165a spr\u00e1va. <\/strong>To je tie\u017e len \u010das\u0165 omnoho v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ej mozaiky. Ja sa mysl\u00edm, \u017ee konkr\u00e9tne \u010diny,&nbsp;skutky \u010dloveka hovoria najviac o&nbsp;tom, ak\u00fd ten \u010dlovek naozaj je. Nezakladajme si na ban\u00e1lnych veciach, ke\u010f s\u00fa to fakt len p\u00edsmenk\u00e1 na pr\u00e1zdnom papieri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tak\u017ee \u010do n\u00e1m hovoria tabu\u013eky? &#8230; \u00c1no, \u00e1no neurotypick\u00e1 spolo\u010dnos\u0165 \u017eije tabu\u013ekov\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom. Tabu\u013eky, tie radi pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa aj odborn\u00edci. \u010co je nap\u00edsan\u00e9 v knih\u00e1ch, to plat\u00ed. Tak teda naozaj je to tak, \u017ee autistick\u00fd \u010dlovek je \u010dud\u00e1k,&nbsp;sediaci a&nbsp;hojdaj\u00faci sa v&nbsp;k\u00fate, vo vlastnom svete a&nbsp;bez em\u00f3ci\u00ed? Blbos\u0165.&nbsp; Mo\u017eno nevieme v\u017edy presne vyjadri\u0165,&nbsp;ako sa moment\u00e1lne c\u00edtime, slov\u00e1 [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":1270,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[16,18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1266","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-emocie","category-vztahy"],"blocksy_meta":{"styles_descriptor":{"styles":{"desktop":"","tablet":"","mobile":""},"google_fonts":[],"version":6}},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1266","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1266"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1266\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1281,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1266\/revisions\/1281"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1270"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1266"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1266"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beznavodu.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1266"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}